Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. My boyfriend is currently in his third year of medical school. Toxic is the right word. And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. She may never join the join the church. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home.
Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years.
IF she becomes an Atheist free thinker like you then consider keeping her. That grad student better be working that hard if he or she wants to make it. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. He did call frequently, so I don't think its a good sign that your doctor guy isn't calling. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. She sounds like she is worth the extra work. I would never ever choose a different path. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever.
Love is what we do, not what we feel. Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this. I was going to be alone in the marrige working hard and planning for the two of us whiles my wife's emotions and energy was spent on other people. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. While the Church allows dating at 16, it discourages serious relationships until you both are older and considering marriage.
